Life is what you make it, or so the
saying goes.
By the time I reached fifty, every day
that I woke up alive was a bonus!
I realised that every day the Universe
gave me endless choices. I would have a choice for a moment, a choice
for the day. a choice for the future.
Depending what choices I made, my life
progressed at a steady rate down the paths I chose.
Some of the choices were simple. Did I
frown when I woke up or did I smile?
Others were more challenging. My chosen
reaction to adverse circumstances were as important as my chosen
reaction to the good things life offered me. There were never any
good or bad choices as such, simply choices that would then become my
life.
During my time in Singapore I have had
so many examples where choice played an important role.
During the Great Walk' I could at any
time, justifiably, become upset at the heat, the distance, the fact I
had no idea where I was.
At any point I could have chosen to quit and
turn around but I chose to continue and discovered through that
choice it was possible for me to walk 10 k.
When I walked the Southern Ridges the
second time and met the group of cyclists, again I was given a
multitude of choices.
Did I walk past saying nothing,
Did I offer to
take the photos so the guy with them could be part of it?
I chose
option 2 and stopped.
When they told me the guy taking the
photo was a random stranger but would I join them to be part of their
photo again I was offered choices. I could decline gracefully and
walked on or I could join them. Again to took option two.
When I wrote the Blog 'The Walk' I
chose to tag Florence. Reminded through the story of the fun half
hour we had shared she messaged me asking if I would like to join her
cycle friends for an outing that weekend.
Again I was given choices.
Logic said
to decline.
I had not been on a bicycle properly since I left Moorea
in 2011 and these guys went out every week!
Various scenarios went
through my head. I would hold them up, embarrass myself at my
inability to cycle up a hill. I would fall off, wake up stiff and
sore, my remaining week in Singapore ruined because of a crazy choice
….. or I could say Yes!
To be fair I did ask Florence how far
they were planning to go and when the answer came back 'Not Far!' ..........
I
smiled broadly, I made a choice and said 'Yes Please!'
Florence messaged me directions,
arranged a spare bike for me plus a helmet. She told her friends I was
coming and the morning of New Years Eve I put on my new Yoga pants
(bought ready for India) and caught the MRT to Pasir Pangjang!
My instructions were to cross the road
and to the bus stop and catch either the No. 30, 143 or 51 to West
Coast Drive.
Simple!
Having exited the MRT, climbed the 50 plus steps
of the overpass plus climbed down the 50 steps on the other side, I
walked the 200m to the bus stop to find my bus. All three buses did
indeed stop here but not one of them mentioned West Coast Drive.
I asked a passing stranger for
confirmation I was on the right track....... I wasn't!!
Back to the overpass. Back up and then
down the steps, a further 200m walk to the bus stop near the MRT (where I had started) and I asked
another random stranger if I was now heading in the right direction.
Not only did he confirm I was going in the right direction he also
gave me the bus No.s, a few landmarks to look for and then as his bus
arrived he announced that actually he too could catch one of the
buses I needed and said he would wait with me!!!
While we waited a further ten minutes for the next bus we
talked about his family, how I came to be in Singapore and where we
both were going on New Years Eve. Once on the bus he pointed out the
landmarks he had mentioned and as we reached his stop he told me mine
would be the next one by the garage!
The choice made by this person to stay
with me and help made a huge difference to my day. I arrived with
Florence having chosen to be happy and grateful rather that confused
and upset by my mornings adventure.
Florence had prepared her fold up bike
for me, raising the seat and making sure everything worked.
The helmet was strapped to my head and
after a quick practice up and down the pavement we were off!!
With my bright coloured yoga pants and my sensible foot wear (flip flops) I may not have quite looked the part but the enthusiasm was there and I was ready!!
At the meeting place about twenty
people had gathered with bicycles of various sizes and styles.
I was introduced and a lot of photos
were taken not only because I was there but also because this was
their final ride out together for 2017!
The person leading the group checked my
helmet and finding it slightly loose for his liking, proceeded to
tighten it into death choke mode.
As he turned his back I loosened it
slightly but just before we left he tightened it again!!!
Cycling in Singapore is a wee bit
strange as you legally have the right to cycle between all the
pedestrians on the pavements.
In some places there are designated
cycle paths to the left of the walkways but as pedestrians tend to
use these in the same way cyclists use their pavements, one still has
to weave in and out of children, pushchairs and joggers as you go.
At road crossings everyone dismounted,
waited for the green man to light and then would push the bicycles
across the road before mounting once more.
By the time we reached the base of the
park we were heading for we must have dismounted at least two dozen
times!!
The clouds that had gathered during our
ride chose that moment to empty so instead of heading up the hill
into the park with the others and despite my protests, Florence and
Kevin led me off to the nearest food court for breakfast.
As we dripped our way to a table I
apologised for ruining their ride to which both of them laughed and
informed me that I had saved them!!
Neither of them wanted to ride in the
rain and the route that had been chosen that day had involved more
walking than riding so they were more than happy to stop.
The rest of the team, they said, would
join us soon as they had reached the top and finished their
drinks in the cafe there.
As they always came down to the food court
for a snack anyway, we would join up with the group again once they
arrived but in the mean time what did I want to eat?
I smiled and relaxed as Florence
explained the various foods available and then ordered for me in
Chinese.
Food was wonderful and we were just
finishing as the first cyclists arrived, chairs and tables were
re-arranged to accommodate us all and a second round of food was
consumed.
As the rain abated, the group leader
got up to leave but about a dozen people said they would probably
give the rest of the ride a miss.
Florence and Kevin made the
decision to stay at the food court longer so I stayed too but once
the group leader was gone it was quickly decided we would continue
the ride but on a different route that didn't involve all the
dismounting stuff!!
We wove our way along the canal path as
the storm clouds gathered again but for now the rain stayed away.
We cycled into Jurong West and then
into Jurong East and on some hidden signal everyone stopped outside a
dessert shop.
Bikes were dismounted and stacked
together and food was ordered!!
My misgivings about joining, who at the
time I believed to be, hard core cyclists were totally unfounded.
They were basically a great bunch of people who met up to have
breakfast together once a week on Bikes!!
Florence again insisted on getting me a
dessert but again I had no idea what to order. I played safe and
ordered Mango and Lychees but as I joined the table all these bowls
of hot desserts started to arrive.
When I asked what they were people
insisted I have a taste and fresh spoons were found.
Although I love and eat a lot of beans,
I never realised how much you can actually do with them until this
point!
Sweet beans in dark juice, light juice,
with added bits, with other shaped and colored beans, the list was endless ….. OK it
went to about fifty something in this particular place.
By the time I
had tasted everything I had eaten the equivalent of an entire bowl
and I still had my own cold dessert to eat.
By now the rain was pouring once more
and despite our lengthened dessert stop it showed no signs of
abating.
Rain coats appeared from the shop next
door, my bag was adjusted, my rain coat was fitted and with a final
photo, we headed out into the rain.
I have no further photos of the ride as
we simply raced through town heading back to Florence's so I could
catch a bus home.
When the green man was red we rode on
the road, when the green man flashed we rode on the pavement.
Not
once did we dismount, not once did we stop as we peddled through
deepening puddles and heavy warm rain. This was tropical humidity at
its finest and I loved it!
Suddenly we stopped in the shelter of a
bus stop and when I asked why, Florence announced we were home!!
No more than 15 minutes had past since
we had left the food place all the way on the other side of town. I
dismounted, planning on taking Florence's bike back to her apartment
for her, but as I stepped to the floor someone announced my bus was
here!!
I was spun three times as I tried to
say goodbye to everyone and pushed aboard the bus. My purse with my transport card was still in
my bag which was wrapped beneath my rain coat forcing me to hoist my entire tummy area to the scanner until it bleeped me on.
As the bus pulled away water dripped
steadily to the floor as I realised what a mess I must look to all the
people on the bus!
My dress was tucked in my knickers, my
leggings held more water than the average water bottle and was slowly
releasing this moisture to the floor around me, my bag which looked
like a very large baby was trapped to my belly by the rain coat which
was also dripping water into the growing puddle around my feet and as
I reached up my hand to smooth my dripping hair I discovered I still
had the cycle helmet on!!
For the next two stops I rearranged my
attire, removing the dripping rain coat and helmet as I went. When I
felt I looked presentable, I escaped to the animosity of the upper
deck where no one had witnessed my dishevelled arrival and took a
seat.
For over an hour I sat at the front as
my leggings dried in the powerful aircon, passing through streets
that ranged from vaguely familiar, to 'Hey, I've been here!' to 'Oh I
must come here sometime!'
As tour buses go, the 143 from Jurong
East to Toa Payoh has to be the best.
For a grand total of 1 dollar 78 cents
you can spend over an hour on a rainy day going through Marina Bay,
China Town, Orchard Road and various other cool locations until you
reach Toa Payoh.
From there I caught a second bus to the
condo by which time I was totally dry and the rain had stopped.
I messaged Florence about the helmet.
Perfect, she replied, now we have to
meet again before you leave!'
I smiled.
From a simple moment choice in the
park, had stemmed an entire field of possibilities.
I not only had been on a great cycle
ride, I had also made some amazing friends plus was going to see them
again before I left for India in a week!!
i absolutely love this! we make choices every day - every moment! you embrace the "onward!" approach to life!
ReplyDeleteSo my question is this: Why couldn't i do this when i was younger? Only in my 40's/50's has this become the way. What adventures did i miss along the way?
I don't think we actually'missed' any thing, as the choices we made then, are what got us to here and to be fare I think we both have pretty cool lives, fabulous children and the knowledge now to grasp all those chances and go for them lol happy travels Daisyfae x x x
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